Is this Chick?
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I have a few, smart butt! I admit though, I prefer hanging out with guys, less drama most of the time! LOL My best friend is a guy.
From my experience, when a girl says something to the effect of "I don't really have many girl friends... pretty much all my friends are guys because I just get along better with guys than I do with girls," you should RUN the other direction because that's usually code for "I'm a whore" and/or "I'm a conniving bitch."
I am not a bitch but have been the ho back a few years ago. The few women I do enjoy hanging around just happen to live in Atlanta, Charlotte, New Jersey and so I only see them occasionally. We talk often though. I would not trade my best friend for anyone in the world, not even a man I was in love with and thus, have had tremendous problems with that because men cannot handle a woman being best friends with another man, but whatever, so THEN I might be a bitch.
I am generally a very kind person and always nice to anyone I meet and people I don't know. I am very helpful, especially when I see an elderly person needing help or a mom with kids and needing a hand in a store or something because I have been there myself. Kindness can be contagious sometimes so I try to be kind always.
The bad part of me is very opinionated, yes and I do get a bit ruffled when I see others being aggressive and unkind, so sue me! I don't carry a grudge and try to see all sides of any argument.
Of course, you guys can generalize me all you want because I am different. I really am not bothered by it at all. I know who I am and I am good with "me."
I am 51 years old and I have learned you really, really should not sweat the little stuff because it really does not matter.
Enjoy your day, guys! xoxo
Plus, what is the difference in a man having several sex partners and that is okay and accepted but a woman cannot??????? I always practiced safe sex and have never, ever had an STD. How many men can say that???? I work up reports for the HIV clinic and as unbelievable as it sounds, it is the heterosexuals who have HIV more than any group and most of them are married!
you know there is a double standard when it comes to this one... always has been that way. It's always been a cool thing for a guy to get a bunch of girls but they don't want a girl that has had a lot of guys. Personally, as long as the guy doesn't have an STD, I don't care what he did before we met. It's what he does DURING me that matters.
I will tell you this, because my number is fairly low, I can't REALLY hold this fact -- if true -- against a potential wife candidate. However, there's generally a threshold I have in mind, and if I discover they're over that (age also plays a factor since I'm only 26) threshold, it certainly gives me pause. No. Doubt. About. It.
But like Hark said on another thread, I freely admit this is an issue I am biased on and that I cannot defend logically. It's an emotion-based argument because it's a "feeling." Even if I have more partners than the girl, a part of me is still gonna be pissy, at least in the beginning. It's just how I'm wired.
Well, from what I hear the girls are starting at age 12 now. I was 18 when I lost my virginity and was not promiscuous until I was 40. In fact, I divorced my husband in my late 20s and did not touch another man sexually for 13 years. Once my kids were grown, if I had free time, I'd have my fun. I am not at all "happy" that I did it, but I did. I would not do it again but I was going through something at the time and mixed up and so it happened. I wouldn't tell the man I almost married about it so obviously there was a degree of shame involved on my part. Now I just am not interested in ever participating in that lifestyle again. It was not good for my soul and unless I fall in love with someone I can trust to be honest with me no matter what it is, then I am fine being single. I have so much to be grateful for anyway and have a few good friends and my girls close by... I couldn't ask for more. I am finally happy.
A lot are, yes. Thus, as a man, you have to weed through those type of girls and find a good girl.
Let me say that it IS possible for a girl to have a large number but also be a really great person and a really great wife candidate, but generally speaking, a girl who's slept with 15+ guys and is still in their 20s is going to have some major character flaws.
Well I wouldn't have EVER done that in my 20s... No way. I was a snobby butt back then anyway lol. The sex drive really kicked in at 40 and I just went a little overboard
a woman's sex drive peaks at about the same age that a man decides he has a favorite chair. mother nature is a mad prankster.Well I wouldn't have EVER done that in my 20s... No way. I was a snobby butt back then anyway lol. The sex drive really kicked in at 40 and I just went a little overboard
.....I'm really not talking about you or even asking, lol.Well I wouldn't have EVER done that in my 20s... No way. I was a snobby butt back then anyway lol. The sex drive really kicked in at 40 and I just went a little overboard
I'm talking about what guys my and Hark's age deal with when selecting from various women. It's sorta like CFB and CBB recruiting. Gotta do your homework, take them on official visits (dates), pitch the positives of your 'program' (yourself and what you have to offer) and also find out what they have to offer and what's important to them. And, ultimately, when you've thoroughly vetted her, you extend her an offer. Now, please keep in mind that other suitors are ALWAYS recruiting her too, so you have to do your due diligence, but you have to do it quickly before someone else scoops her up............................unless her offer isn't commitable at the time. If that's the case, you can slow play her.
Holy shit, it's exactly like recruiting.
I can't emphasize this enough. No matter how sweet and lovable and 'in to you' a girl is, there's always another guy trying to persuade her to be his. Always. The trick is to put your best foot forward, wow her with your pitch, and secure the commit over the other suitor(s). Show me a girl that's only getting hit up by one guy, and I'll show you a girl who isn't a blue chip recruit.
If I had a nickel for every time a female says, "I have a lot more guy friends,...", I'd have a lot of nickels.
Handlers would probably be bad in that situation as well.
I love the analogy.
But your strategy would be dependent on what type of "program" you are. For example, are you an SEC program where you just go after the girls with the most talent (read: hottest) but they have some daddy issues and are dumb as a box of rocks or are you a B1G program where you go after the larger corn fed girls that have a pretty good head on their shoulders or are you an ACC type program where you really only recruit locally (just at your home bar) where the selection isn't what it is nationally (throughout town)? Or maybe you're like a PAC school that recruits a lot of "system" girls? You know, the ones that have been trained to be just another piece of your puzzle.
We've seen his picture. I think it's safe to say that he is a mid major and is hoping to find a diamond in the rough.
Yeah but most of those mid major basketball programs have their players stay for all four years
Also , f*** you lol.
Yeah but most of those mid major basketball programs have their players stay for all four years
Gotta watch out for the ones that are only in it to get noticed, and plan on transferring to a P5 school though.
I'm sorry. I misspoke. THN and Hark need to avoid the OADs. You and I are looking for 13 scholarship OADs.
Redshirts are necessary when coming off of an injury or a bad situation with previous team. Need to keep them on the bench until cleared to play.
Who passed that off to Clinton, who passed it off to Bush 1, who.......nah, he didn't have the cajones to pass off anything on Reagan.
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