Sunday Gravy- so I don't have to type too much, this is a recipe from a really good friend at NYSE that's pretty close and I've edited quite a bit to get closer to my family recipe.
you need: 4 chicken thighs with the skin, 4 country style BONE IN pork chops, 4 sweet or spicy Italian sausage links, meatballs(below), onions, garlic, olive oil, red wine, s&p. 6 cans crushed tomatoes (NOT PUREE) Fresh basil, oregano, butter, sugar, red pepper flakes
Now - slice 3 large white onions, chop 4 gloves of garlic and sauté (med/hi) in olive oil in a heavy bottom pot. After about 5 mins...add the chicken thighs and brown for about 15 mins....remove the thighs and set aside. Now add the chops to the pot....brown these for about 15 mins...remove and set aside. Add Italian sausage in casing brown about 5 min. Remove and set aside. Deglaze pan w ladle of chicken stock and scrape bits from browned meats. Now add - cans of kitchen ready crushed San Marzano tomatoes....- add 1 cup red wine - I like valpolicello for this - stir - bring heat up to high until it boils then reduce to simmer....season with s&p, add the fresh chopped basil - like 6 / 8 leaves, oregano, red pepper flakes. Add back the chicken and pork. Let simmer on really low for several hours(4-6) until meat is falling apart and you can you pick all the bones out...add tomato paste if it gets too thin and add wine if gets too thick. at this point it is all done and finally add sausage and meatballs (below) and a stick of butter. Cook another 15-20 mins. Salt or sugar to taste.
The Meatballs:
You CANNOT USE LEAN GROUND BEEF.. Absolutely not....they will taste like cardboard.....you need GROUND CHUCK..... Do not buy the 90/10 (90% lean/10% fat) you are wasting good money and your time!!! You need at least 75/25.....(75% lean/25% fat)
Now that we got that right - (you can also add some ground pork or veal if you like) I always use 1 lb of ground chuck and 1 lb of ground pork.....2 eggs, pepper, handful or two of grated Pamegiana, (if you only have Romano then that's fine), 2 med cloves of crushed and minced garlic*, 2 slices of Italian bread soaked in whole milk and a splash of olive oil....no need to add salt - the cheese will provide it.
Remove any rings and wash your hands.....now form the meat balls....bigger than a golf ball, but smaller than a baseball....next - I fry my meatballs and then add to the sauce...you can also place on a baking sheet and bake in the oven for 15 mins or so on 350 degrees and then add to the sauce. If you are in a rush - then just add them to the sauce raw and they will cook in about 15 mins......but for me - I prefer to fry them first.
Buon Appetito.