Most of my immediate family is in Virginia and always has been. I don't hate UVa at all. I actually see them as a respectable school and admirable opponent. I've never been demoralized or really PO'ed when we've lost to UVA, especially since Bennett took over. It's a respectable, efficient team and coach. Nothing to really hate as far as attitude or behavior. dook has plenty of slime in their trail. I don't LIKE losing at all, but losing to UVa is not as bad as losing to dook or state... at all. Even in the Sampson era, when my older cousins prayed at Holland's feet, it never bothered me. They never won anything substantial.
Now, if 5 years, if they keep winning like this, and we lose to them a lot... I might have a different perspective. They just aren't the rival that they really should be and could be. It would be nice to create a fervent rivalry between us and them. state is not even a minor challenge anymore.