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New Year's Resolutions

Back to the thread topic, one grown-up thing I need to do this year is get a will. I have life insurance that will take care of my wife and kids if something happens to me (and vice versa for her) but we haven't officially set up contingencies if something happens to both of us at the same time.

You chuckers got any advice for me to disregard on that?


We did it. Not really a big deal. I paid a lawyer friend of mine $250 to just write it up and have my wife and me sign it. If you don't have a lawyer buddy, then maybe expect a little more time and a little more money.
 
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I'm in the crowd of trying to get healthier blah blah blah. Similar to GSD - I'm trying to look at this as a lifestyle change as opposed to a New Year's Resolution. I used to exercise regularly (pretty much daily) but have fallen off the wagon in the last couple years. So my bare minimum goal for the year is 150 workouts (which is roughly 3x per week), and really, 200 (4x per week) should be attainable.

Eating better is a big part of it as well - but I haven't set any strict "dos and don'ts" for that, it'll be on the "I know it when I see it" basis of whether I'm veering too far off course. This actually polices itself with me anyways while working out. If I haven't worked out all week, I have no problem housing a bag of chips, grabbing fast food, etc. But if I keep to my workout schedule I find that I'm much less likely to eat unhealthily because I don't want to ruin the work I put in.
 
I have thrown in the towel on "your v. you're" as well as "I could care less" but what, pray tell, is your problem with ax?
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I'm curious what this entails. Go to bed earlier? Wake up later? Sleep in on weekends or days you're not working?
I typically only sleep a max of six hours a day, sometimes only four, so I'd love to start sleeping more now. I have a very hard time going to sleep before midnight and I have ALWAYS been an early bird and wake up around five everyday. I hate it too!
 
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You chuckers got any advice for me to disregard on that?
Hard to say without knowing more about you're finances and what you want to accomplish.

We did it. Not really a big deal. I paid a lawyer friend of mine $250 to just write it up and have my wife and me sign it. If you don't have a lawyer buddy, then maybe expect a little more time and a little more money.
Lawyers are ok for basic wills. However, I have learned through my job that lawyers are some of the worst people to draw up a will unless they practice law in the trust and estate field. You would be surprised at the amount of stupidity you can find in wills that have been written by lawyers.
 
Hard to say without knowing more about you're finances and what you want to accomplish.
Your not helping.

Lawyers are ok for basic wills. However, I have learned through my job that lawyers are some of the worst people to draw up a will unless they practice law in the trust and estate field. You would be surprised at the amount of stupidity you can find in wills that have been written by lawyers.
Who do you go to for a will if not a lawyer?
 
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Who do you go to for a will if not a lawyer?
Someone that has some expertise in the field. Financial planner, trust and estate advisors, etc. That can get kind of tricky though. They can't actually give you legal advice. Basically the way it works is you tell them what you want and they work with your lawyer to make sure he draws up the will correctly to eliminate any mistakes. If you don't have anything complex and you just want something to avoid dying intestate then you can go to a lawyer. Just make sure that's something they specialize in. If the lawyer that draws up your will also deals with speeding tickets you want to go somewhere else.
 
Back to the thread topic, one grown-up thing I need to do this year is get a will. I have life insurance that will take care of my wife and kids if something happens to me (and vice versa for her) but we haven't officially set up contingencies if something happens to both of us at the same time.

You chuckers got any advice for me to disregard on that?
I'm no lawyer but unless your estate is valued in the 10's of millions any good attorney should be able to draw up a will. If you are needing more than one or two trust set up that would be a different story. The important thing is for you and your wife to set down and decide what you want done after you die, after she dies, and after you both die.
 
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I didn't indicate I had a problem, I laughed at you replying to his joke the way you did in that poast. Then I played along.

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Sorry I was responding to your "Haha, just damn." post. What's wrong with what I said?
 
Sorry I was responding to your "Haha, just damn." post. What's wrong with what I said?
His poast wasn't about a will that time, it was about a display resolution. A play in this thread, not about wills. So your reply was funny, as it would seem silly to think 1280x1024 had something to do with a will. Perhaps you understood that, and knowingly replied to it anyway, but it's still funny to me.
 
Nothing wrong with it pr. Your point on wills is a good one and I appreciate it.
The point I was trying to make is make sure you and your wife set down and decide what you want done and after that it should not be a big deal for any good lawyer to put it into a will.
 
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His poast wasn't about a will that time, it was about a display resolution. A play in this thread, not about wills. So your reply was funny, as it would seem silly to think 1280x1024 had something to do with a will. Perhaps you understood that, and knowingly replied to it anyway, but it's still funny to me.
That is what I done. Sorry carry on.....
 
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