This is what I have told you about. If you'd just NOT mention the guy, in any context, you'd avoid much of this and you'd be better off and they'd probably be more tolerant. This is sprinkling lighter fluid on the fire. And, it doesn't matter if the others do it and it doesn't bother him. What matters is YOU doing it bothers him and creates the backlash of the really harsh insults. I'm not condoning the insults, but I'm trying to get you to see how some of this originates from your participation. Reading sarcasm is not a guaranteed outcome on message boards.
That's because she is a fat sorry bitch of an attention whore. She can't stand me not responding to her poasts, which is why she got progressively more personal when I put her ass on ignore.
It's really pathetic, but whores are gonna whore. What are you gonna do?
(oh, and all of it originates from her participation. And if she could be sarcastic and funny instead of boring and angry, it might also be different)