Actually, the comparison to what has happened with Helene is probably a pretty good one. They really have no good idea at this point. And the claimed numbers in the Middle East are probably no different. Regardless, you can believe that Israel is just lobbing munitions at Gaza with no purpose whatsoever. If that's your position, there is nothing that myself or anyone else can tell you. But this is not about proportionality. And I don't know that you, I, or anyone else here with our comfy lives where our biggest worry is whether we buy the 65" or 75" tv gives us any real perspective. These people are no different from us in terms of wanting a good life for them and their families. But their daily existence is far different and the constant worry over life and death is very real for them.
The bottom line is that the government in Gaza is a terror organization whose goal is to eliminate Israel and the Jewish people. Let that sink in - completely eradicate them from even existing. They will do anything to achieve that goal. The saying "From the River to the Sea" is not just a catchy slogan for a tourist brochure.
There are a couple of universal things in life and this is no different. One of them is to be careful with whom you pick a fight. Knowingly starting shit with someone who can bomb you and thinking you are safe because you choose to hide like rats underneath schools and hospitals is just stupid. Is Israel really supposed to say, "Okay, sure, sure, we can't kill you and you only, so it's okay that you came into our country and randomly raped, murdered and kidnapped our people as well as those who were guests in our country. You've been warned before not to do things like this and we have repeatedly demonstrated that we'll kick your ass if you once again start such shit. This time, though, it's different because, being the tough guys that you are, you hide behind a bunch of women and children. So, we'll just forget about what you did. And, we'll just forget about the next time. And the time after that, because you'll surely do it again and again if you are able, all because you are hiding in holes beneath hospitals and schools."
You say Israel dgaf. I think you are dead wrong. I think they'd much rather fight these pricks directly. But the pricks won't do that because they'd get their asses handed to them. So they hide. And hide some more. The truth is, the terrorists have chosen to sacrifice their own citizens by picking such locations to house their operations. The moment they chose to build their organization underneath any particular hospital or school, they might as well have gone and shot everyone of those women and children in the head. Place the blame where it belongs. If they stop putting citizens at risk, the citizens won't suffer the consequences of such decisions. Place the blame where it belongs.
Buying into the idea of proportionality and that you can't go after the bad guy, regardless of where he hides, is exactly what gets more Israelis killed down the road. You probably believe that a year and a day ago, if only Netanyahu would have said "Don't", none of this would have happened.