Sorry if I offended you. Listen, nobody called you a spoiled brat. I said younger people generally have less patience and expect quicker results. I don't think there's any doubt about that. There's a reason people call this the age of instant gratification. The older you get, the more patient you generally become and the more you value tradition. I said I didn't expect you to understand my perspective because of the differences in our ages.
But in reality, it sounds like we're not that far apart re: OAD's. I don't want UNC to become a revolvong door with OAD's coming and going every year and it sounds like you don't either. Roy does recruit OAD's, but he doesn't cater to them. IOW, he is not going to build his team around them like Cal and Krazywhiskey do. They are expected to earn their time and pay their dues. He'll start freshmen if they're good enough though.
Perhaps because of this UNC isn't perceived as a school that is "OAD friendly". Or perhaps it's because guys like Barnes and Henson chose to return. Some of our guys, who could have potentially left after one year, did not. Bottom line is, we're not seen as a school that is conducive to getting to the NBA ASAP. And with top 15 talent in this age of instant gratification, that's what matters most, not school tradition, family environment, educational opportunities, etc... Jordan, Perkins, Worthy, and Carter all could have left after one year. They didn't because they valued all of the above. That's what I mean by the age of instant gratification.
The younger you are, the more likely you are to like Cal's OAD approach. The older you are, the less likely you are because you value the traditional approach.