Black people in So California blamed white cops in So California for everything. Here in VA, in a school of about 1800 students that were split right down the middle (50% black, 50% white - we have no other races in Central VA), we didn't talk about race other than to say, "you are a silly black motherfu*ker" or "that dumb redneck can't play a lick". In college (at UNCG), it was the same thing - no real malicious intent when acknowledging the differences between black and white folks. We called each other names. We realized we were different races. But it wasn't venomous like it is now. Y'all aren't getting it and that's ok. But I'm tired of the back and forth at this point.
I'll be me. You be you. And we'll hopefully minimize our discussions on these matters moving forward.