I actually agree that it is predicated on the presence of other people, and their perspectives, or the subject at hand. But, no one is one or the other without something else to compare it against. As in, there is no hot without cold.
Someone who believes they can only have a "conservative" view, or a liberal view, is a strange choice, in my opinion.
yes, of course. That's why 'left' or 'right' are relative. If you were the only survivor, shipwrecked on an island, there would be no reason to say you were right OR left.....because right or left of WHO or WHAT? You would be the most liberal man and you would be the most conservative man on the island, at the same time, if you for some reason you even thought about it.
Only when you came across another survivor would you possibly compare and then pigeonhole. In real life though, there is always a hot compared to cold and vice versa. There is always a left compared to right in a society where one is free to choose. And just because as you contend no one is 100% conservative or 100% lib, that doesn't preclude being considered one or the other. Most find enough distinction to consider themselves either republican or democrat. A few are just warm though, and they are who pols lie to the most.
I wonder how many even stop to think of a bigger picture, and try to understand just what they are signing up for. Democrats are named for democracy, which connotes that the majority of people as a mass should have their way. That's what democracy is about. Republicans, based on 'republic', are for individuals being protected from the will of the masses by being represented by chosen individuals who voice their POV, and from the long arm of government.... and that's why they are so strongly defensive of the Bill of Rights, and other named rights...
When issues arise, some might be surprised to see how accurate this is politically. It is at the core of polarization, and it should be no surprise that arguments build along these lines.
Going back to those basics, which of course aren't completely chiseled in stone, might help one decide where to pitch his tent. For example, I loathe the idea that I might have to dance to the tune of several hundred million nitwits, but I will strongly defend your right to be whatever kind of nitwit you care to be....as long as I don't have to participate in the idiocy. The right to be free of the will of the masses is rapidly deteriorating, and that's why I don't care if Attila the Hun runs on a platform of independence. I'm voting for him.