different mindset from mine then. In my world, you can choose to talk to me or NOT talk to me, and my only evaluation of that is that you either chose to talk to me or you didn't. People don't have to justify to me the choices they make, as long as those choices don't negatively affect me in the process of abridging my rights. There's no hate and rage unless that happens. I don't feel any and I don't assume it on their part.
If I try to talk to you and you don't want to talk to me, rather than feeling outrage I celebrate the fact that our society allows such freedom of choice. I can not reasonably enjoy that freedom while denying you the same opportunity so I'm just glad for the freedom, and your motives are not a major consideration to me.
You trample on my rights and cause me a problem though, that's a different animal.
By that token, if Biden harangues the public that Trump or whoever is a threat to democracy...a threat to their rights...then he isn't just making a choice that I don't question, he is actively creating an atmosphere of defamation and danger to the object of his lies. He is possibly depriving me of the president I want to have in place. On the other hand, if I simply refuse to talk to him, who gives a shit. After all, unless he's trying to make political hay, he chooses to not give me the time of day either.
The problem you have correctly but inadvertently identified is one of getting your panties all wadded up over something that doesn't materially affect you.